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Unlock the Secrets to a Happier Marriage:
Discover over 200 insightful questions to ask and discuss with your partner to understand their expectations, deepen your connection and transform your marriage
Unlock the Secrets to a Happier Marriage:
Discover over 200 insightful questions to ask and discuss with your partner to understand their expectations, deepen your connection and transform your marriage
Don't let Unspoken Expectations Destroy Your Relationship: When couples never talk about what they really expect from each other, they're basically walking through a minefield blindfolded, until they step on a big life decision, which can typically threaten the very foundation of the marriage. Start early to discuss your differences so you can avoid the explosion ! Get Instant Access!
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221 QUESTIONS:
Covering the 15 Components of Marriage
to discuss with your partner, to save you from the biggest marriage trap: lack of proper communication
These questions are designed to help couples understand each other’s expectations and build a foundation for honest communication.
DON'T FALL VICTIM TO A DYSFUNCTIONAL MARRIAGE
Fail to Ask and discuss these questions with your partner and you:
- Fall into The Mind-Reader Trap
- Miss judge their motives, resulting in resentment and criticism.
- Miscalculate their expectations for the relationship
- Make assumptions about your partner’s needs
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BE AN EXPERT AT DOING MARRIAGE
Asking and discussing these questions with your partner can help you:
- Understand what makes them think differently from you.
- Go beyond mere errand talk to communicating at the deeper levels of feelings, values, and beliefs.
- Improve emotional connectivity and enhance intimacy by creating an open channel for meaningful conversations.
- Understand what their deep needs are so you can meet them and make them happy
- Prevent resentment and criticism through understanding their habits and way of life
- Prevent years of misunderstanding and disagreements
- Assist them in effectively communicating their needs
- Develop a healthy approach to conflict resolution.
- Improve emotional connectivity and enhance intimacy
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Unlock the Secrets to a Happier Marriage: Explore Over 200 thought-provoking questions to deepen your connection and align your expectations with your partner.
Who Is This For?
The #1 cause of divorce is the lack of effective communication. Start the discussion with your partner using these well researched, evidence based questions designed to deepen connection and build a foundation for honest communication.
Married couples
Married couples who never discussed these sensitive and difficult questions.
Critical issues are swept under the rug while they silently eat away at the fabric of the relationship. These questions create the atmosphere for candid, honest, and transparent discussions, which are critical for healing the relationship.
Marriages in crisis- on the brink of divorce
These questions will create the right atmosphere that will compel you to listen while your partner blows off steam, and allow you to vent while your partner listens to understand your perspective. These questions can save your marriage.
Married couples who want more
Married, but want to enhance intimacy and reignite the spark in the relationship.
By communicating needs, feelings, values, and beliefs, your partner may, for the first time have a deep understanding of your needs and perspectives, thus strengthening the emotional bond and enhancing intimacy.
Premarital Preparation
By asking and discussing these questions before you say, "I do" helps you to spot red flags and to ascertain whether your partner is a fit candidate for marriage. Failing to ask these questions could cost you your life's happiness. You could find yourself being plagued with bitter and lasting regret.
Parents
The best counselors are parents who are equipped with the tools needed to guide their children in the right direction. Parents should be involved in the mate selection of their children. Asking thoughtful questions about their lovers will serve as a catalyst to guide them in the right direction.
Counselors, coaches, and educators
Those who are tasked with the responsibilities of guiding others towards healthy relationships sometimes need to ask thought-provoking questions. They’re able to identify areas of strength or weakness in relationships and hence are better equipped to disseminate expert advice.
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Mastering the art of asking good questions is fundamentally about replacing assumptions with understanding
10 Reasons Why Good Questions Are Essential for Married Couples
The couples who thrive long-term are those who never stop being curious about each other,
who ask questions not to prove points but to build bridges, and who understand that good questions are acts of love that say "you matter enough for me to truly know you."
- 1. Prevents Expectation Drift from Destroying Relationships. People change over time, and expectations that worked early in marriage may no longer fit. Regular strategic questioning helps couples identify and address these shifts before they create insurmountable resentment or growing incompatibility.
- 2. Stops Assumptions from Replacing Communication. Long-term couples often stop asking questions and start assuming they know what their partner thinks or feels. This leads to misunderstandings and missed connections. Intentional questioning keeps communication active and prevents emotional distance.
- 3. Navigates Life Transitions Successfully. Major life changes—parenthood, career shifts, aging parents, health crises—require renegotiating expectations and roles. Couples who ask good questions can adapt their relationship to new circumstances instead of being destroyed by them.
- 4. Maintains Intimacy Despite Routine. Daily life can reduce couples to logistics and surface conversations. Strategic questioning about deeper topics—dreams, fears, personal growth—maintains the emotional intimacy that keeps marriages alive and passionate.
- 5. Addresses Problems While They're Still Solvable. Good questions help couples identify relationship issues in early stages when they can still be addressed constructively. This prevents small problems from becoming entrenched patterns that require intensive intervention or lead to relationship breakdown.
- 6. Keeps Romance and Friendship Alive. Asking questions about your partner's inner world, interests, and experiences maintains the curiosity and discovery that characterizes healthy long-term relationships. This prevents couples from becoming strangers living in the same house.
- 7. Manages Conflict Constructively. Instead of fighting about surface issues repeatedly, strategic questioning helps couples identify underlying needs and concerns. This transforms destructive arguments into productive problem-solving conversations.
- 8. Adapts to Individual Growth and Change. People continue evolving throughout marriage, and good questions help partners stay connected to who each other is becoming rather than who they used to be. This prevents the common complaint that couples "grew apart" over time.
- 9. Strengthens the Relationship During Crisis. When marriages face serious challenges—infidelity, financial stress, health problems, parenting difficulties—good questions help couples understand each other's perspectives and work together toward solutions rather than turning against each other.
- 10. Creates Legacy and Meaning. Thoughtful questioning about values, purpose, and shared goals helps couples build marriages that feel meaningful rather than merely functional. This deeper sense of purpose provides motivation to work through difficulties and creates relationships that inspire others.
10 Reasons Why Good Questions Are Essential for Premarital Couples
Mastering the art of asking good questions is fundamentally about replacing assumptions with understanding, judgments with curiosity, and reactions with responses.
This skill transforms relationships from a guessing game into a partnership based on genuine knowledge of each other's inner worlds.
STOP! Never say "I Do" Until You Ask Your Partner These Heart-searching Questions
SKILLFUL QUESTIONING WILL:
- 1. Reveals Hidden Deal-Breakers Before Commitment
- 2. Identifies Unspoken Assumptions About Roles and Responsibilities
- 3. Establishes Communication Patterns for the Marriage
- 4. Prevents the "We Never Talked About This" Crisis.
- 5. Creates Emotional Safety for Difficult Topics
- 6. Provides Reference Points for Future Challenges
- 7. Creates Realistic Expectations About Marriage
- 8. Establishes Conflict Resolution Skills
- 9. Builds Deeper Intimacy Through Vulnerability
- 10. Aligns Life Visions and Long-Term Goals
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Transform your relationship from a guessing game into a partnership based on genuine knowledge of each other's inner worlds.
IN THIS COURSE YOU'LL FIND
Answers To These Questions:
Over 200 Questions
COVERING THE 15 FUNDAMENTAL COMPONENTS OF MARRIAGE.
Well-researched, Evidence-based and Comprehensive
Love and Happiness
Spirituality and Worship
Fun and Recreation
Social Media and Public Life
Household Expectations
Relational Expectations
Financial Management
Extended Family and In-Laws
Career and Work-Life Balance
Parenting and Family Planning
Others....
Marriage Maintenance and Growth
Communication and Conflict resolution
Intimacy and Sexual Expectations
Retirement and Future Planning
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Meet the Author
Lloyd Allen
Lloyd Allen: Author, Speaker, Trained Marriage & Family Therapist and Theologian. 30 years helping couples.
Founder & CEO of Fixing Marriages Academy, Inc.
Trained Marriage & Family Therapist;
Trained Clinical Mental Health Counselor and Theologian.
30 years helping couples and families in and out of the USA; Author: Book on Love, Sex and Relationships and E-book: Finding Love & Keeping it- Over 200 tips to ignite and maintain the flame of love in your relationship
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