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The Marriage Discussion Guide
Welcome to the course

The couple who takes time to understand each other's deepest expectations builds a marriage that nothing can shake. The Marriage Discussion Guide gives you the exact questions that turn two individuals into one unified, deeply connected team

WHAT'S INCLUDED & HOW TO TAKE THE COURSE:

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Expectation

A leading cause of divorce

Everybody enters marriage with expectations. These expectations are hidden rules that form our reality of how a marriage should function. These expectations are usually unconscious (hidden) rules that we expect our partner to comply with.

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Expectation

A leading cause of divorce

Everybody enters marriage with expectations. These expectations are hidden rules that form our reality of how a marriage should function. These expectations are usually unconscious (hidden) rules that we expect our partner to comply with.

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Meet the author

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Lloyd Allen is a Theologian, Author, and Speaker, and the Founder and CEO of Fixing Marriages Academy, Inc. Trained as a Marriage and Family Therapist at Barry University, with honors, Lloyd brings 30 years of experience helping couples around the world repair, restore, and rebuild their marriages. Happily married and the father of two, Lloyd's greatest passion is helping you build a happy, loving marriage that lasts.

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Expectation

A leading cause of divorce

Everybody enters marriage with expectations. These expectations are hidden rules that form our reality of how a marriage should function. These expectations are usually unconscious (hidden) rules that we expect our partner to comply with.

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Expectation

A leading cause of divorce

Everybody enters marriage with expectations. These expectations are hidden rules that form our reality of how a marriage should function. These expectations are usually unconscious (hidden) rules that we expect our partner to comply with.

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The Marriage Discussion Guide, organized across 15 comprehensive categories, represents the discussion topics couples need to explore, so they can have a better understanding of each other’s expectations and build a foundation for honest communication.

List of 15 Main Categories:

1. Love and Happiness 2. Spirituality and Worship

3. Fun and Recreation 4. Social Media and Public Life

5. Household Expectations 6. Relational Expectations

7. Financial Management 8. Extended Family and In-Laws

9. Communication and Conflict Resolution 10. Parenting and Family Planning

11. Career and Work-Life Balance 12. Intimacy and Sexual Expectations

13. Commitment and Loyalty 14. Marriage Maintenance and Growth 15. Retirement and Future Planning

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Work through one category at a time.

Each worksheet can be completed in 15-30 minutes

1. Partners complete their sections independently first

2. They then share and discuss their responses

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Thought-Provoking Discussion Questions

1. Love and Happiness
2. Spirituality and Worship

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Work through one category at a time.

Each worksheet can be completed in 15-30 minutes

1. Partners complete their sections independently first

2. They then share and discuss their responses

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Thought-Provoking Discussion Questions

3. Fun and Recreation
4. Social Media and Public Life

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Work through one category at a time.

Each worksheet can be completed in 15-30 minutes

1. Partners complete their sections independently first

2. They then share and discuss their responses

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Thought-Provoking Discussion Questions

5. Household Expectations
6. Relational Expectations

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Work through one category at a time.

Each worksheet can be completed in 15-30 minutes

1. Partners complete their sections independently first

2. They then share and discuss their responses

Gaming offline (13).png

Thought-Provoking Discussion Questions

7. Financial Management
8. Extended Family and In-Laws

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Work through one category at a time.

Each worksheet can be completed in 15-30 minutes

1. Partners complete their sections independently first

2. They then share and discuss their responses

Gaming offline (13).png

Thought-Provoking Discussion Questions

9. Communication and Conflict Resolution 10. Parenting and Family Planning

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Work through one category at a time.

Each worksheet can be completed in 15-30 minutes

1. Partners complete their sections independently first

2. They then share and discuss their responses

Gaming offline (13).png

Thought-Provoking Discussion Questions

11. Career and Work-Life Balance
12. Intimacy and Sexual Expectations

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Work through one category at a time.

Each worksheet can be completed in 15-30 minutes

1. Partners complete their sections independently first

2. They then share and discuss their responses

Gaming offline (13).png

Thought-Provoking Discussion Questions

13. Commitment and Loyalty
14. Marriage Maintenance and Growth

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Work through one category at a time.

Each worksheet can be completed in 15-30 minutes

1. Partners complete their sections independently first

2. They then share and discuss their responses

Gaming offline (13).png

Thought-Provoking Discussion Questions

15. Retirement and Future Planning

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Work through one category at a time.

Each worksheet can be completed in 15-30 minutes

1. Partners complete their sections independently first

2. They then share and discuss their responses

List of 15 Main Categories:

1. Love and Happiness 2. Spirituality and Worship

3. Fun and Recreation 4. Social Media and Public Life

5. Household Expectations 6. Relational Expectations

7. Financial Management 8. Extended Family and In-Laws

9. Communication and Conflict Resolution 10. Parenting and Family Planning

11. Career and Work-Life Balance 12. Intimacy and Sexual Expectations

13. Commitment and Loyalty 14. Marriage Maintenance and Growth 15. Retirement and Future Planning

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THE E-BOOK: THE DISCUSSION GUIDE

The couple who takes time to understand each other's deepest expectations builds a marriage that nothing can shake. The Marriage Discussion Guide gives you the exact questions that turn two individuals into one unified, deeply connected team

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THE E-BOOK:
The A–Z Conflict Resolution Guide
for Married Couples.

Every conflict in your marriage has a solution — you just have not been given the right technique. The A-Z Conflict Resolution Guide gives you 26 proven methods to resolve every kind of conflict before it costs you everything

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THE E-BOOK: THE PRENUPTIAL AGREEMENT

The couple who enters marriage with full financial transparency builds a foundation that withstands every storm. The Prenuptial Agreement Explained gives you everything you need to start your marriage with nothing hidden and everything protected.

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THE E-BOOK: THE CRISIS CONVERSATION GUIDE FOR STRUGGLING MARRIAGES

Whether your marriage is in full crisis or simply drifting toward one, this guide creates the structured space for the honest conversations that most couples desperately need but never know how to start.

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THE E-BOOK: THE PRENUPTIAL AGREEMENT

The couple who ask the right questions before the wedding never have to answer the hard ones after it. The Premarital Counseling Question Guide gives you everything professional counselors ask — before the damage is done

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What's inside:

  • Questions that uncover hidden expectations before the wedding

  • Questions that align your values, faith, and finances

  • Questions that identify conflict areas before they become problems

  • Questions that build complete honesty between partners

  • A guided framework for covenant-based communication

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